On relation(ship)s/sex/love/consent/porn/kink/(non)monogmay

The last topic, not mentioned in this presentation, is On Kink focusses on an embodied human perspective with a focus on warm data, queer practices, non-binary conflict resolution, and accountable spaces.

III Essaying practice:

On bruises

Essaying as collective performative

practice

Pansexual vs bisexual

ederly care

ELIA 

Queer

Medical 

Falling 

Pansexual

Sapiosexual

bumping

ADHD

Color 

Landscpae 

Healing a bruise

depression

"today is a day invented by greedcard companies to make people feel like crap"

"Sand is overrated, it's just tiny little rocks"

14-02-2025 Valentines day

Why does disire taste like a salty sea?

"One way to see edifying philosophy as the love of wisdom is to see it as the attempt to prevent conversation from degenerating into inquiry, into a research programme" T. Holert, ‘Invitation to the Interval’, in Rike Frank (ed.), Sketches of Universal History Compiled
From Many Authors By Sarah Pierce, London: Book Works, 2013, p.164.

All about love

On making love

"Désanges’s conceptual credo of the ‘amateur’,
the ‘non-professional’ who is motivated by love." (Frank, 2012)

Bonny & Clyde

Mickey & Mallory

Rocky & Adrienne

Rose & Jack 

The at of giving an receiveing (Utrecht, 27-10-2023)

Sexual grounding (Klaas Burger)

On female anger

Audry Lorde 

Uses of Anger: Women responding to Rasism 

'vat van zelfwaardering' (van zessen)

Pornflm fesival - cavia

trauma bond

Bonnie & Clyse syndrome

on love

Police report

On relation(ship)s

unassisted female orgasms during sex are 25%, 50% of women don't recoize when thy are having an orgasm 

On Bruises note

Femicine

Geef ons de nacht terug 

Look what you made me do

See what you made me do

Coersive control

Intiem terreur

domestic violence

on porn

On abuse

These roses are from the first 'playdate' with my partner, finding a  seperate space for desires. I almost never say my safeword, somehow going over the boundaries is a desire. Like the other side of the mountain. I ask for it. And I also want to do it. It's a double sided coint. Somehow it's never enough, it is always a desire, unforfilled,

trauma

on sex

Andrew Tate

Corona

marks

Fantisey 

informed conset 

grens overschrijdend gedrag

On BDSM

Imact 

#metoo

On fightsports

kink

consent

Wresting

Playfight

Article on BDSM and mental health,positive innfluence

Kickboxing

Discourse on concent (Utrecht, 27-10-2023)

 

switch / brad

Moral, boundaries, J. tronto (Utrecht, 27-10-2023)

Vrouwen society: Privilege

Man en vrouw in de ruimte

Anekdotes verzamen

Sigaren

Uitgaan - Queer party

Opruimen / Rommel

Koken + liefde door de maag

Vrouwen in medicatie

Vrouwen zelf bevallen

Grapjes

 

Vermoeidheid

Volkskrant meter – mind space opsruimen

Witte onschuld – Sunnie blauwe ballen

 

 

Femicine / intiem terreur

 

Orale structuur (Karin Meier)

Bruising note

When spiecies meet

Donna Harraway